Question for the ladies: Which man would you rather...?

Here's the question; Which man would you rather marry? A
man who has been married twice before but has no
children (he can have children) or a man who has never
been married but has 2 children?
So would rather be a man's third wife but have no step
children or be a man's first wife but have two step
children? Which would you rather and tell us why...